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Some Indian movies with romance in them that I liked are
Jaane Tu Ya Jaane Na, Zindagi Milegi Na Dobara, Jab We Met,
Socha Na Tha, Pyaasa. In the first, the lead pair are best friends and date other people but only find out they are in love a little before the end of the movie. In the second, one half of one of the lead couples is possessive, manipulative and thoroughly unlikeable; another couple is adorable, but the woman seems to have no other purpose in the movie than to rescue the man. In the third, the lead pair are friends but only get together in the last few minutes of the movie. In the fourth, ditto. (See a pattern here?) In the fifth, too, more or less.
I've recently loved watching
Up in the Air and
How Do You Know, but no, no healthy romances there either. I like
Notting Hill, but there wasn't much trust there, at least on one side.
Another movie I love so much I've seen parts of it at least half a dozen times on TV is
Music and Lyrics. The lead pair talk to each other, complement each other, and are both intelligent and funny and weird in different ways. They seem like real people (even though one of them is a rich aging but still really hot pop star). And even though there's the standard mistake causing lack of trust followed by reparation and reunion, the mistake wasn't unforgivable (especially as our hero redeems himself) yet the heroine's presence in his life inspires him to become a better person. So yeah, healthy enough, overall.
So that's all I have. You?